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empathy

when you suffer
be it a loss an injury an injustice a wrong
many things may need to happen before the pain starts to ease
but you can help yourself by allowing somebody in

someone who is prepared just to be there with you and to
acknowledge
that there is a crisis which has no easy solutions

empathy
is being able to say to someone i'm here with you in the dark and the cold
and i can't make it better for you but i can feel what you're going through
i can't carry the burden for you but i can share it

in that it is different from sympathy
which is saying i'm really sorry you're out in the cold and the dark
but sorry as i am i can't really help you with this


empathy is precious and sometimes rare
it may not always be forthcoming but if it is
learn to recognise and embrace it
action

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  • ◯
    • welcome to your world >
      • why make the most of it >
        • what's the most you can make of it
  • BASICS
    • learn >
      • why learn >
        • you can >
          • twenty-one things you could learn
        • it's good for you >
          • some other things that are good for you
        • you have to >
          • what else you absolutely have to do
    • laugh >
      • do you really need a reason to laugh?
    • live and let live >
      • what everybody wants >
        • love >
          • two more things we need >
            • purpose
            • respect
          • and two things everyone wants to be >
            • happy sometimes
            • safe enough
    • celebrate >
      • good reasons to celebrate
    • cherish >
      • what's to cherish >
        • fifty-nine things to cherish
  • PERSPECTIVE ADJUST
    • the glass is half full >
      • your horizon
    • your woes are trivial by comparison >
      • empathy and action >
        • empathy
        • action >
          • what action to take
    • it's a phase you're going through >
      • change and rest and loss and growth
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